Thursday 19 October 2017

CATALYST Youth, October 20, 2017- "GHOST STORIES"





Most of us are familiar with ghost stories. On TV, there are reality-type shows about people exploring haunted houses, abandoned insane asylums, and dingy prisons (which would all be pretty creepy, ghosts or not) where they document their supposedly “real supernatural experiences” with night-vision cameras. Every year, they come out with movies like PARANORMAL ACTIVITY which tells the story of people living in a haunted house…again, using those weird night-vision cameras. There have even been a few movies that involve someone who’s alive who ends up FALLING IN LOVE with a ghost! Imagine how hard it would be to to make THAT relationship work! Disney/Pixar is coming out with a brand new animated movie in November called COCO that deals with a boy who becomes a ghost and has to solve some kind of mystery about his family before he gets stuck as a ghost forever! Usually in movies and tv shows, we see a lot of stories about someone who can talk to ghosts and help them to somehow solve their own murder or to help them “walk into the light”. And of course, there are all of those nasty, downright evil ghosts that need to be busted using lasers and high-tech traps in movies like GHOSTBUSTERS!
 

Hollywood aside, what’s the deal with ghosts? Did people believe in ghosts in the Bible? Are ghosts really dead people with a terrible sense of direction, wandering around looking for the light? And if they’re not dead people, WHAT ARE THEY? Do they REALLY have answers to all of our questions? Those are some questions we tackled this week.
 

DID PEOPLE IN THE BIBLE BELIEVE IN GHOSTS?
 

People have been telling ghost stories for thousands of years! There were even a few times where Jesus's disciples thought that HE was a ghost because when they were around Jesus, some abnormal stuff was happening.

In Matthew 14, when the disciples were in a boat in the middle of a storm it says, “A little while before morning, Jesus came walking on the water towards his disciples. When they saw him, they thought he was a ghost. They were terrified and started screaming”. (Matthew 14:25-26)
 

Can you picture that? You can’t really blame the guys for being freaked out--- after all--- they were witnessing someone WALKING ON TOP OF THE WATER. In that case, when Jesus got into the boat with them and saw that he wasn't some spooky apparition, it says, “The men in the boat worshipped Jesus and said, ‘You really are the Son of God!”(Matthew 14:33)
 

Another time where the disciples thought that Jesus was a ghost was after he had been killed on the cross and appeared to them in Luke 24:37-39: “They were frightened and terrified because they thought they were seeing a ghost. But Jesus said, “Why are you so frightened? Why do you doubt? Look at my hands and my feet and see who I am! Touch me and find out for yourselves. Ghosts don’t have flesh and bones as you see I have.”
 

Again, you can hardly blame the disciples for thinking that Jesus was a ghost—they saw him killed in public in front of hundreds of eye-witnesses, and Roman soldiers were REALLY GOOD at the whole “killing thing”. Jesus wasn’t just “a little dead”—he was COMPLETELY dead. They buried him! So, the fact that Jesus stood right in front of his followers a few days later—where they talked to him, touched his wounds and even ate with him, again proves that Jesus wasn’t just an ordinary dude! This was one of the most amazing things to ever happen in all of history (which is why Easter is still celebrated THOUSANDS of years after it all happened)!
 

ARE GHOSTS DEAD PEOPLE WITH A PATHETIC SENSE OF DIRECTION—SEARCHING FOR A LIGHT?
 

The Bible gives us a pretty clear answer to this question—and it sounds like, after we’re dead, we won’t have a chance to go sightseeing, haunt the bully at school, or to team up with someone who’s alive to solve crimes like in the movies.
 

Hebrews 9:27 says that, “We die only once, and THEN we are judged”. What that’s getting at is that AFTER we die—barring some kind of miracle where God raises one of us from the dead—we’ll stand before God and he’ll judge us based on whether or not we’re tight with him and have experienced his forgiveness through Jesus. (Despite what people think, the Bible tells us that's the only thing that matters to God. Simply being a "good person" isn't as important.)  
Ecclesiastes 9:6 says that dead people, “will never again take part in anything that happens on this earth”
 

Job 7:9-10 says, "Just as a cloud dissipates and vanishes, those who die will not come back. They are gone forever from their home—never to be seen again".
 

2 Corinthians 5:8 gives a pretty awesome promise for Christians—it says that death shouldn’t be something scary, but we can even be CHEERFUL about it, because when we die, we’ll be “AT HOME WITH THE LORD”. I’ve been to some REALLY sad funerals because I didn’t know if the person had a friendship with Jesus, and I’ve also been to some Christian funerals that were AMAZING…because they were times of celebration;  celebrating someone’s life, celebrating that they’re in heaven and celebrating the fact that I’ll see them again one day! This verse says that for Christians, when you die, you’ll be with Jesus!
 

So, the Bible is pretty clear on this one—ghosts AREN’T dead people. When you’re dead, there’s no coming back for a visit or haunting the dude who got your order wrong at McDonalds. 

WHAT ARE GHOSTS?

OPTION A) GHOSTS ARE FAKE

The fact is, that a lot of the people who claim to chat with ghosts are people looking for a quick buck—even con artists who study human behaviour and look for gullible people to take advantage of—to fool people into believing that they have special knowledge from beyond the grave or they have the ability to ask their dead loved one a question! Even though there are HUNDREDS of shows about ghost hunters…they never seem to catch any, but still manage to make thousands of dollars in the process!

OPTION B) GHOSTS ARE EVIL SPIRITS (DEMONS)

It seems really weird in our modern, intelligent, skeptical society to say that evil spirits exist—although in some countries, they don’t have a problem believing that at all. Whenever I’m feeling sceptical about the whole thing, I have to remember that Jesus and his disciples encountered evil spirits quite a few times in the Bible!
 

In Matthew 4, Jesus spent time praying in the wilderness and experienced temptation by Satan (the devil)
 

In Mark 5, Jesus encountered a man who was possessed by evil spirits and was harming himself, and Jesus actually HAD A CONVERSATION with the evil spirits and commanded them to come out of the man! And this was done in front of a ton of eye witnesses!
 

In Acts 19, it says that there were a lot of people in the city of Ephesus who were practicing witchcraft and were encountering evil spirits…and after they became Christians, they burned those books and experienced freedom from the evil they were dabbling with!
 

In Acts 16, it tells us that there was a young slave girl who was basically a medium (someone who would listen to evil spirits and tell people what they said about their future for money)—and she was bothering Paul and Silas as they travelled around and told people about Jesus. Acts 16:18 says, “This went on day after day until Paul got so exasperated that he turned and said to the demon within her, “I command you in the name of Jesus Christ to come out of her.” And instantly it left her”. What’s so cool about that is that they were actually thrown in jail because her slave owners couldn’t make any more money off of her!

Yes, there’s lots of places in the Bible where people encountered evil spirits, but the common thread in all of those encounters is that Jesus is WAY more powerful, and that as Christians we can be protected from a lot of that stuff. When people even mentioned Jesus’ name, it sent the evil spirits running! The Bible tells us that there’s no such thing as a friendly ghost—and when people think they’re seeing or communicating with a loved one from beyond the grave, when they think that it’s harmless fun—if it’s not a scam, then they’re messing with evil spirits! It’s not ALL the stuff of Hollywood, and it’s not ALL make believe--- which is why the Bible gives us some pretty solid warnings about it!
 

In Deuteronomy 18, God spoke to the people of Israel and told them to be careful about hanging out with their neighbours—because most of those neighbours didn’t care at all about following God or doing what was right. “Be very careful not to imitate the detestable customs of the nations living there…Do not practice fortune telling, or use sorcery, or interpret omens, or engage in witchcraft, or cast spells, or function as mediums or psychics, or call forth the spirits of the dead. ANYONE WHO DOES THESE THINGS IS DETESTABLE TO THE LORD”.
 

That’s one reason why a lot of Christian parents won’t even let their kids watch or read stuff that involves witches, ghosts, or magic…because the Bible warns us to stay away from that kind of stuff! A few years ago, a big craze on Youtube was people putting pencils on their hands, wanting to talk to an evil spirit. Some people have Ouija boards which you can buy at Toys R Us to make a game out of talking to spirits. The Bible says not to mess with that stuff, because when you do, you’re basically welcoming evil spirits into your life!
 

Isaiah 8:19-20 says, “Someone may say to you, ‘Let’s ask the mediums and those who consult the spirits of the dead. With their whisperings and mutterings, they will tell us what to do.’ But shouldn’t people ask God for guidance? Should the living seek guidance from the dead? Look to God’s instructions and teachings! People who contradict his word are completely in the dark”.

I love that passage! It says that if we need directions or want answers about life, it’s kind of dumb to try to consult dead people or visit someone who claims to see the future, when we have a direct line to God! We can ask him for help, we can look to the Bible for wisdom and to help us know what we should do with our lives.  The Bible tells us that there ARE evil spiritual forces at work in our world, and their goal is to trick and deceive us, to have us place our faith in things besides God, and to pull us away from the God who loves us and wants the best for us—and because of that, we’re warned to keep our distance from those things.

That doesn't mean that you can't watch COCO when it comes out in theatres (unless your parents don't want you to), but anytime we ghost stories in movies or TV shows, we have to be aware of the fact that those are just STORIES…they’re works of FICTION…they don’t tell us how the afterlife REALLY works. 


In EVERY ghost story I’ve ever seen, one of the main messages is that if someone is “good”, or if their ghost manages to solve their own murder, they’ll end up walking into the light at the end.” And while that’s a really nice thought and a nice way to wrap up those stories, according to the Bible- that’s not true! 

In John 14:6, when his disciples asked Jesus how to get to heaven, he told them, “I am the way, the truth, and the life! Without me, no one can go to the Father”. It’s through Jesus that we can have a friendship with God, be forgiven of our sins, and one day be a part of heaven when we die. It has nothing to do with solving the mystery of our own deaths, completing some kind of checklist after we die, doing more good things than bad things in life, or successfully haunting our friends and family (and we can all breathe a sigh or relief about that last one).

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS


1. Ask your teen if they can think of any tv shows or movies that deal with the supernatural or ghosts. Why do you think people watch them? Why do you think some people visit psychics or people who claim to be able to communicate with loved ones from beyond the grave?

2. In John 14:6 Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life! Without me, no one can go to the Father”. How does this compare to the "messages" we see in movies or TV shows about ghosts and the supernatural?

3. Why do you think the Bible contains warnings about things like dabbling with witchcraft, consulting spirits, or visiting psychics? What does Isaiah 18:19-20 say about where we should look for answers about life or the afterlife?

Friday 13 October 2017

CATALYST Youth- October 13, 2017- "GOOD GOD? BAD NEWS!"




As we get closer to Halloween and I see a lot of the disturbing and violent decorations hanging from the store shelves, it reminds me that our world, in REAL LIFE, is disturbing enough! Do we really need to put plastic heads on top of sticks on our front lawn? You only need to look at the news or check out social media for a reminder that our world is REALLY MESSED UP! 

Every day we see and hear all kinds of bad news: terrorists driving cars into crowds of people or planting bombs, mass shootings at concerts, North Korea launching missile tests, crazy racism and mistreatment of people just because there skin is a difference colour, people living in poverty, starving to death, or refugees risking their lives to escape their country because it’s just so incredibly dangerous! All of those things can leave us questioning the goodness of God. If God is so loving, why doesn’t he just fix everything that’s broken with our world and stop evil from happening? That's the question we tackled this week.
 

GOD ISN’T TO BLAME FOR THE EVIL IN OUR WORLD
 

We often blame God for a lot of the evil in the world—because if he’s all powerful and all loving, he should stop all this stuff from happening. He should cause cheeseburgers to rain down from heaven to feed starving children! He should swoop in like a superhero to stop all of the drug dealers and child abusers, leaving them all tied up for the police like Spiderman does! If God can create all of creation with just ONE word, than he’s DEFINITELY able to put an end to violence and crime.
 

So why doesn’t he? Doesn’t he love us? Doesn’t he care about starving or abused children? Doesn’t he care about the families of the people who were shot while attending a concert in Las Vegas? Well, to answer that question, we have to look at the book of Genesis (the very first book of the Bible). In it, it tells us that God created everything- including people- and when he was done, he called it all GOOD. What that means, is that there wasn’t any lying, there wasn’t any greed, there wasn’t any hatred, there was no jealousy, there wasn’t any violence or killing- animals didn’t even eat other animals! Basically, it was heaven on earth!

That all changed, not because of anything that God did, but it was because the first two people he created made a choice. It was the first sin—or in other words, the first choice to do the opposite of what God wanted for them. Adam and Eve were tempted and decided to disobey God.
 

All of the evil and violence in our world is because of one thing- God created humans with the freedom to CHOOSE. All of us have the freedom to choose to love and follow God and live the way that he wants us to, or to go our own way and do whatever we want instead. That included Adam and Eve, that included that crazy gunman in Las Vegas, and that includes you and me. So then, why did God create us with the ability to choose?
 

When I was a kid, I got a robot dog for Christmas. It was called a Spot Bot- and at the time, it was one of the coolest toys ever. You would put in the batteries, flick a switch, and it would roll around on the floor in circles, wagging its little plastic tail and “barking” with a weird robotic dog voice. As much as I loved my little Spot Bot, it wasn’t anything like having a REAL dog. Sure a real dog would do nasty stuff like poop or pee on the floor and you would have to clean up after it, but a real dog would also run up to you and lick your face and snuggle with you when you come home and really love and depend on you. Now, we aren’t dogs to God. In fact, James 1:18 says that humans are God’s prized creation. We aren’t animals to him. BUT, when God created us, he didn’t want robots that were programmed to love and follow him—he wanted people who would FREELY CHOOSE to love and follow him—because THAT’S REAL. You wouldn't want someone to marry you one day because they were forced to do it. You would want someone to CHOOSE to marry you because they love you and want to! God wants us to WANT to have a friendship with him. He wants us to choose to love and follow him!
 

Adam and Eve were the first humans, who made the first terrible choice to reject God’s way and go their own way instead…and we’ve been doing it ever since. God made a perfect world for Adam and Eve and told them not to do ONE THING—and they did it. In the Bible, God tells us how he wants us to live our lives…but do we really care or listen?
 

Some of us do, but most of the people in this world do whatever they want. Sometimes what they want is to be kind, caring and thoughtful, and sometimes what people want is to be greedy, to get revenge, to say or do unkind things, to be selfish, and even to hurt or kill other human beings. It’s our choice to SIN—to do the opposite of what God wants us to do—that makes this world so evil and messed up. This doesn’t thrill God at all. In fact, it horrifies him! It makes him totally sad! When God sees the evil things his creation does, that breaks his heart!
 

God doesn’t let children starve in poor countries—that happens because those countries might have evil leaders who keep wealth for themselves while allowing others to go hungry, or it’s because people would much rather help themselves than to help other people. For example, did you know that each year about $400 billion dollars worth of food is wasted because it goes uneaten or spoils in the fridge? If that food could be collected and passed out or shared- the waste alone would be enough to feed the world’s 870 million hungry people! We can’t blame God for starving children.
 

God isn’t the one firing bullets into crowds of people. That’s because people are CHOOSING to do something that God hates! The bully at school is choosing to be a bully. The greedy corporation is choosing to be greedy instead of paying employees a fair wage. When you make fun of somebody at school and hurt them, it’s because you CHOSE to do the opposite of what God wants you to do. When we all choose to live the opposite of how God intends life to be lived—when we SIN- is there any wonder that our world is so evil and messed up? Sometimes I’m surprised that it’s not MORE messed up! So, it’s not God’s fault that there’s so much evil in our world… and if he were to take away our choice to do right or wrong—the world would be a perfect place—but we wouldn’t be humans- we would be robots—so God is letting this play out for awhile.
 

GOD WILL MAKE EVERYTHING WRONG WITH THIS WORLD RIGHT AGAIN.
 

2 Peter 3:9 says- “The Lord isn’t really being slow about his promise, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants everyone to repent”.
 

This verse gives us the reason why God hasn't yet become so fed up with the evil and injustice in the world that he puts an end to it all. God promises in the Bible that one day, he WILL make everything wrong with this world right again. He’s going to judge the world. While we can look at the news and wonder why God isn’t doing it right now, this verse tells us that it’s because God is being PATIENT hoping that more and more people will come to follow him. It tells us that God doesn’t want anyone to be destroyed! He wants everyone to repent!
 

That word “repent” means that he wants us to turn away from our bad choices, to accept his love and forgiveness and CHOOSE to follow him! The good news is that all of the evil and terrible things in this world aren't going to last! Everyone who chooses to live their lives the opposite to how God wants will one day stand in front of him and be judged based on the choices they made. 

If we want to be a part of heaven one day, if we want to be a part of the perfect world that God will restore, it all boils down to a choice. We can CHOOSE to ask God to forgive us, we can CHOOSE to follow God’s way instead of our own way…or we can do the same thing that Adam and Eve did, and CHOOSE to do what we want instead (SIN). When we make that choice, the Bible says that our sin separates us from God. While we can't control how others choose to live their lives, what choice will YOU make?

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS



1. When you see all of the bad news on social media or on TV, how does it make you feel? Does it make you angry? Does it make you sad? Does it frustrate you? Why?

2. Read 2 Peter 3:9 together at home. Ask your teen why they think God is so patient and is allowing us to freely choose to do evil things at this time?


3. That verse says that God wants EVERYONE to repent. Ask you teen what it means to "repent"? (It means to turn away from sin- to choose to love and follow God instead of doing whatever you want.)


4. Encourage your teen that the everyday choices they make are either making this world a better place or a worse one! Pray with them and ask God to help them resist the temptation to do what's wrong, and to make the tough choice to do what's right-- even if it's not what they naturally might want to do.